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Sunday, March 30, 2014

An Unusually Long Day

Friday, March 28th through Saturday, March 29th

Friday dawned and Duffy elected not to trying visiting his cousin in San Clemente. He just did not feel strong enough to travel that far and spend quality time on a long-past-due visit. So after canceling, Duffy puttered around the trailer attempting to replace the broken slide in the screen door. I, however, did not even wake up until noon or later. The week must have taken its toll on me. When I did change clothes, I climbed back into bed to read a book. Come 5:00pm, I decided it was time to take a shower to see if that would revive me. We were due to meet Skip and Susan, Tom and Cathy Larsen at Por Favor for dinner. Duffy was feeling enough better to have a meal out; maybe the four Casita walls were getting a bit tight – it's a pretty small area to be confined in.

Dinner was great, the company was better. We always enjoy spending time with these four, make that five with Tom and Cathy's daughter Kimberly. I ate a light meal, which was a wise choice because I was not feeling at 100% of my normal energy and appetite. Duffy, likewise, ate light.

The rest of the night went downhill. Duffy really thought he was getting better. During the night, he was unable to sleep. His cough was persistent and turned into spasms of coughing during which he was unable to take in a breath. A couple of times he nearly passed out. I did not get to sleep because I had slept the day away, and then Duffy's coughing and odd mutterings when he did doze off, kept me awake. At 3:30am I finally said, “I am not asleep, so if you think you need to go to emergency, we can.” Not one to race to the doctor before the critical point in an illness or injury, he surprised me by agreeing to go. The inability to take a breath was scary and becoming more frequent.

Long story short – by 4:00am we were on the road to emergency at Kaiser Permanente, having first contacted Group Health's Consulting Nurse. Four o'clock is a good time to go to Emergency it turns out; the rest of the world is sleeping, even on a Saturday morning after a clear and reasonably warm Friday night when lots of accidents and injuries could have taken place. Duffy got right in, especially after I let the staff know he was having difficulty breathing. Five hours later, after blood tests, xrays, and an EKG, Duffy was released with three prescriptions and a diagnosis of bronchitis and a bit of pneumonia in his right lung. Five hours seems to be the norm, give or take an hour, even if a patient is seen right away in the Emergency room.

What caused the respiratory problems, who knows? Most likely not the smoke in Laughlin or air conditioning at Viejas Arena. I am guessing this has been coming on for some time. We are more than grateful for the professional and cheerful care, and amiable attention Duffy received at Kaiser. We cannot say enough good things about the quality of service and care.

Tonight, Duffy is staying at my brother's house where he may get a better night's sleep. He may stay there for a few days all told. He is equipped with a Codeine cough suppressant, powerful antibiotics, and an inhaler, plus an admonition from the medical staff to drink lots of water - one-half his body weight in ounces. I am back in the trailer where I hope to get a restful night's sleep after only a two-hour nap since mid-day yesterday. 

(NOTE: Awakened at 9:15am Sunday morning after 11 straight hours of much-needed sleep.)

Good night all. Happy dreams.

Until next time...Pam and Duffy

Thursday, March 27, 2014

NOT the Routine, Plenty of Down Time

Saturday, March 22nd through Thursday, March 27th

Either the smoking environment in Laughlin or the March Madness Marathon got Duffy down. On Saturday, he mustered up just enough energy to watch SDSU Aztecs rout their opponent, and has been sick ever since with a nasty chest cold. Sunday through today he has spent either sleeping, reading, or taking short birding walks here in the park. It's times like this that our Baby Beluga gets mighty small.

On Satuday, Duffy decided it was time to do something about the flashing lights he'd been seeing inside his left eye, followed by an organized cluster of floaters. After at least an hour trying to connect and on the phone with the Group Health (our Washington HMO) consulting nurse, he was advised to call Kaiser Urgent Care. Then after what seemed like another hour, he managed to make an appointment with Urgent Care at 8:30am Sunday.

His chest cold was just coming on, so getting up early was not as difficult as it would become in following days. Looking back, this was the most painless urgent care visit either one of us has every experienced. No waiting – Duffy's was the first appointment for the assigned doctor that morning. The doctor, an M.D. was careful to include both of us in his assessment, and very caring. Amazingly, he called an opthalmologist an call who was on call that weekend, and learned she was just on her way in to see two other patients anyway. It did not take long to be seen, since Duffy was already there and the other patients had not yet arrived. Wow! The verdict: floaters forming in his eye, good that he came in because the same cause can lead to detached lining or detached retina. She checked his other eye that his doctor at home has been watching, and found it to be stable. So...great relief!

The rest of the week has been spent at Santee Lakes, with occasional trips for me to the store. We are fortunate to be very close to a Sprouts Farmers Market for fresh and gluten free foods, a Starbucks for coffee (almost daily), a Walgreens for medicinals and incidentals, and a Costco for gas. Everything is within a few blocks. Oh, and did I forget a favorite spot of ours, the Friends of the Library Used Book Store, a full store of already-read books from library patrons and supporters. Oh, and also within just a few blocks o9f us there is a great little Mexican restaurant we discovered by accident when we were looking for a quick and casual meal out. This is not your remote kind of camping.

I have had time to go through photos I've taken and make some collages which I've conveniently ordered from the Walgreens just a couple of turns from here. I've been wanting to supply some family photos to my Aunt Bonnie, my mother's only sister, for a long time now. Bonnie lives in her home in El Cajon, and I hope to visit her today with photos in hand. She loves to read books she can hold, and look at photos printed on photo paper. Bonnie is very easy to gift.

Tonight we, or I, will go to Skip and Susan's to watch the SDSU game against Arizona – they beat Gonzaga on Sunday (I followed the scores online while I struggled to find a way to watch the game online. Duffy might have enjoyed the diversion from sleeping, coughing, reading, sleeping, coughing, etc.)

We had to cancel our scheduled visit on Wednesday with Duffy's cousin Linda and her husband Chuck in San Clemente due to his miserable cold, and are hoping he is well enough, and not contagious, to go tomorrow. I will report on the success of the trip in my next posting.

Until next time...Pam and Duffy

Friday, March 21, 2014

Feels Like Home: Errands, Errands, and Chores. Plus a Lot of Basketball.

Tuesday, March 17th through Friday, March 21st

Back in the Routine – Plus - March Madness

Tuesday: Upon our return from Laughlin we slept in and read. Then, the day began. Clean the Casita inside – vacuum, scrub, polish; do laundry, shower, catch a bite to eat, fall into bed. Laid the new Kokopelli mat outside our door to keep from dragging the outdoors inside the trailer. We purchased this at a market stand in Quartzsite, AZ, (of all places) on our return from Laughlin.

Wednesday: Drive to Kearny Mesa to look for cabinet hardware for drawers and doors at home, then to Miramar to explore lighting possibilities. Interesting light fixtures here, but definitely not our style, and most definitely not right for our pocketbook. Back to El Cajon Home Depot for a sanding block to shave the Lexan plastic replacement piece for the screen door. Join Skip and Susan for dinner at their house – yummy corned beef, cabbage, and carrots.

Thursday: Drive to La Mesa, about ten miles, to another lighting store. This one was more like it. We found some fixtures, and may order them before we return home. Back to El Cajon Home Depot for a different scraper/sander for the Lexan plastic replacement piece – turns out it's too tough for sand paper. Met Skip and Susan at Souplantation for dinner, then went to their house to watch the SDSU Aztecs marginally beat the University of North Dakota in March Madness basketball. SDSU plays again tomorrow (Saturday).

Friday: I am on my own until Susan finishes her day with her grandson, Leif. Nice, I can catch up on organizing photos. Then, if there is time, we will drive to Mission Valley and Fashion Valley shopping centers to do some, um, shopping. Duffy and I rendezvoused back at the trailer at 10:00pm. “Good Night, Duffy.” “Good Night, Pam.”

Until Next Time...Pam and Duffy

We Claimed We Never Stay In One Place For Long When Traveling. We Lied.

Thursday, March 6th through Wednesday, March 11th

Marking Time, Being Lazy

This is so unlike us! Duffy plans to make some repairs (bathroom window slide pull, leaky gas line he installed for a catalytic heater last fall, and the screen door slide that keeps bugs and insects out while allowing us to open the door with the screen left closed. And everyday, Duffy reads, sleeps, and maybe takes a short bike ride. Evenings we spend with Skip and Susan, or with them and old, mutual friends (emphasis on “old Friends,” not “old”) at a local restaurant.

Thursday we ate dinner at Skip and Susan's with cherry pie ala mode for dessert, Susan's favorite for her birthday.

Friday, Skip ran some errands with me while Duffy rode his bike along the Mast Park Trail, then dinner out at the favorite local Mexican restaurant with “old friends.”

Saturday, Duffy and I took a nearly three-mile walk in the park here, around the lake looking at, and for, birds, then up to the office to plan the remainder of our stay. (It's too nice here this year, we do not desire to go anywhere else). At 5:00pm, we left to attend the wedding reception of my cousin's daughter. Lindsay, who teachs elementary school in Gilbert, Arizona, came home to El Cajon to get married in her home Mormon Temple and to celebrate with family.

Sunday, Daylight Savings Time began – hurray!! Although we hoped to attend church, our need to change campsites before noon foiled our plans. Instead, we moved into our “new” camp spot in the same RV park, where we will stay for the next month. It feels both good and strange to be settling in one place for a while. Maybe this is why we are being so lazy – there's little or no incentive to accomplish anything. Except – Duffy did repair the bathroom window pull with some miracle glue. In the evening, we joined Skip and Susan for dinner at their home.

Monday, I spent the afternoon with Skip and his youngest grandson, Leif (aged 1½), while Susan sped off to her hair appointment. It took me all that time to get a hint of a smile from Leif. I played, he watched. I built, he took apart. And, he flirted. We might become friends yet! I did some laundry while Leif and I played, then after he went home, Duffy rode his bike from Santee Lakes and we dined with Skip and Susan – delicious tri-tip steak barbequed to perfection by Skip, salad, veggie, fruit, and all the squares a meal should have.

Tuesday, I shopped for Ahna's birthday gift. I hope she has as much fun opening it as I had picking it out for her. Suffice it to say, she is getting a colorful new outfit.I then drove up the hill to my Aunt Bonnie's for a visit and to take her to Souplantation to join Duffy, Skip and Susan for dinner. Following dinner, we returned to Bonnie's to view Skip and Susan's travel memories on DVD from their trip to China on the Yangtse River last year. We enjoyed seeing all the places they visited and saw as they cruised along.

Wednesday, that's today. This became a run-around-day: return broken or wrong items, replace them with others, buy a piece of polystyrene to fix our screen door, and Subway for the dinner salad we've missed this past week of dining with family and friends. Tonight we will prepare for a short trip to Laughlin, Nevada with Skip and Susan. We are riding over with them tomorrow, and returning on Monday, March 17th.

Lights will be out on this blog for a time. We will be staying at the Aquarius in Laughlin, leaving our trailer here in Santee. It promises to be hot there, and even hotter than it is here now when we return. Loving the sunshine!


Until next time...Pam and Duffy

Santee: Our Second Home

Monday, March 3 through Wednesday, March 5

Staying Put In Santee

It is nice once again to pull in to a campground and know we will not be going anywhere for a while. Last night, after the post-drive nap upon arriving, we met Skip and Susan at Soup Plantation for a simple dinner of salad and soup. It's one of our favorite places to eat, a sister restaurant to Fresh Tomatoes in Tucson and elsewhere in Arizona.

Morning broke hesitantly, with gray skies, but the promise of sun in the afternoon held true. Here in Santee the temperatures rose to the high 60s/low 70s. Nice!

Our plan to make this an “administrative” day catching up with tax returns needing filing, laundry needing laundering and drying, and a trailer needing cleaning from all the debris carried in from the storms over the past few days, and a bike ride for Duffy, once again in training for this year's STP – well, almost did not happen. Initially, we were slow to rise and it was nearly lunch time by the clock before we left to buy quarters for the laundromat (situated, happily, within the RV Park). Duffy oversaw the washing machines and start of the dryers while I hurried back to the trailer to give the bathroom a shower with the shower hose, and sweep, vacuum and sponge mop the floors. Running out of steam, I hurried back to the laundry to relieve Duffy so he could nap, while I finished the drying and folding.

Such activity is not newsworthy of itself, however, It was a race against the clock, because earlier in the day my brother, Skip, called to say our cousin John and his wife Elaine had returned to San Diego after a driving trip up the coast and back, and wanted to gather for dinner out by the beach. I don't think I ever cleaned the trailer, folded clothes and readied myself for a nice meal out so quickly. Even though we both were tired (Duffy's nap was much shorter than he needed), we revived enough to enjoy a wonderful meal and visit at a long-time San Diego restaurant called World Famous. It may indeed be – the food was absolutely scrumptious. Cousin John and Elaine Peterson live In Kalispell, Montana, and this was the second time in about four years that I have seen them. Duffy and I passed through an earlier time and met Elaine, and found John had gone hunting. Such a pleasant two hours spent. Hopefully, Duffy and I will see them again when we take a fall vacation across the northern tier of the U.S., hopefully this year.

Tuesday, March 4th dawned foggy before I became aware that I had forgotten to set my alarm to call Kurt at 7:29am to ask what he was doing 42 years ago to the day. Kurt started this tradition some years ago, when he called me to ask what I was doing at that time on that day, however many years ago. :) But, I did call and leave him a message about 16 minutes into his birth day. Celebrating in his absence (or more accurately, mine) I did what seemed to highlight the day best – I treated myself to a haircut, a manicure and a pedicure. I hope Kurt enjoyed his day as much as I did. Duffy, unfortunately did not – he spent the day at Skip's fighting the filing of tax returns electronically. Back to our trailer late in the day for a nap for Duffy and birthday shopping for me (sister-in-law Susan's birthday is March 5th), then home for microwaved frozen pizza. I hope Kurt's birthday dinner was better than ours.

Wednesday, the 5th, Duffy and I slowly dragged ourselves out of our toasty, warm bed, realizing the day was dawning bright and sunny, and promising to rise in temperature to the high 70s here in Santee and El Cajon (east of San Diego). Again, nice! Tired of eating oatmeal day after day, we treated ourselves to breakfast out, then went to Skip's (Susan babysits their grandson, Leif on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays where Duffy helped Skip rearrange office furniture. The repairs to our trailer that Duffy planned for today will wait for tomorrow. They are not going anywhere, and neither are we. Back to our campsite for a nap (surprise), then a bike ride for Duffy, some small chores for Pam, and out to dinner for Mexican food. All this to say, ours was a lazy day. We seem to be getting used to this.

The day of repairs will wait for tomorrow. We hope to get out and walk around these lakes (Santee Lakes at Padre Dam run by the City of Santee) to see what birds we can find. We nearly always see a variety of ducks including otherwise elusive Wood Ducks, Herons Great Blue and Green, Egrets Great and Snowy, hawks and a variety of passerines (perching birds). Duffy thought he saw a White-Tailed Kite driving back into the park this afternoon, normally a rare sighting for us.

Today, March 5th is Susan's birthday. I did get to a couple of shops to hunt for a gift. We will celebrate with her tomorrow; she has plans tonight.


Until next time...Pam and Duffy

CA Highway One Along The Pacific Ocean

Wednesday, February 26 through Sunday, March 2, 2014

South Along Highway 1 on California's Wild and Rocky Coast to Morro Bay
The drive along scenic Highway 1 was happily clear and beautiful. Weather forecasts up and down the west coast predicted a major wind and rain storm beginning Wednesday. Weather forecasters continuously moved the predicted onslaught of high winds and pounding rains later in the week, day by day. We would not experience the brunt of the storm until late Thursday night when we elected to hunker down an extra day to wait it out.

The highlight along this long, windy, steep-cliffed drive, besides the expansive views of the coastline, was our stop at Hearst Beach, a mating and breeding area for elephant seals. This beach is north of San Simeon and the Hearst Castle, before the road widens into the rolling hills and ranch land. A seal covered stretch of sand protected by a boardwalk of, fence and shrubs began to undulate with the clumsy movement of these gentle giants. Maybe, they only look gentle; I imagine coming between a cow and her calf would be hazardous! One of the favorite photos I took is of a “cow-eyed” adult looking straight in my direction, with its Jimmy Durante “schnoz.” What a prize!!

On Thursday, a partly cloudy, and only slightly hazy day, we drove the 35 miles North-ish to the Hearst Castle State Historic Park, now owned and operated by the State of California, established by agreement with Hearst Corporation and family. Most of the 82,000 acre Hearst cattle and horse Ranch was preserved for perpetuity just a few years back under joint agreement.

What a remarkable place!

What an amazing story of a young boy dreaming of building a European-style “home” on a hilltop with expansive views of the family ranch, Pacific Ocean, and surrounding Santa Lucia Mountains.

What a project!

And, what an impossible client William Randolph Hearst must have been for architect Julia Morgan of San Francisco, who spent twenty-eight years bringing multiple designs and design changes to life!

Reminiscent of 2012 when I left my purse in the Anahuac NWR women's room on the north Texas coast, I “left” my cell phone on my seat in the Hearst Park theater. I am sure I stood up and my phone slid to the floor when the seat folded in place. I had no time to look do a search, for in just moments after the end of the film we were to board the bus that would take us up the long and windy road to the “castle.” Just as I “found” my purse two years ago among the volunteers at the encampment near the Anahuac NWR visitor's center, I received a call on Duffy's phone the following morning to learn that my phone had been found and was safely held at the Hearst Castle Ranger Station. Glory Hallelujah!! (The ranger station/lost and found office was closed when our tour of the castle was over, so there was no way to find or claim it without waiting a day.)

I forgot to put gas in the Pilot before driving to the castle, so pulled off at the turn to Cambria not far to the southwest. I am so glad I did not stay on Highway 1 to the next exit to Cambria a bit farther up the road, where I most likely would have found a station. Instead, I followed the narrow, winding road to “downtown” Cambria, a tourist's delight! What I found in Cambria was another place to return to and explore. I could forgive the gas price, at $4.39 per gallon 20-cents higher than in Morro Bay just for the discovery of this lovery, quaint place. And, I only added five gallons to the tank.

The promised storm abated enough to allow me to return to Hearst Castle Visitor's Center on Friday. The call on Duffy's cell phone came before I had a chance to call the Ranger's Station. How grateful I am that the ranger thought to call the first speed dial number that appeared on my list. Traffic was light enough, that the drive was quite pleasant. After claiming my phone - Oh, Hallelujah! (My how connected I've become!) - I wandered through the gift shop more leisurely than the day before, bought a latté, and left for Morro Bay and our campsite at Morro Bay State Park.

Before leaving Hearst Castle, on my walk back to the Visitor's Center from the Ranger Station, I worried an Anna's Hummingbird that must have been protecting a nest in the box hedge along the building. She flew in front of me and landed not five-feet from me on a low branch of the hedge. I stopped stock still. She “chipped” her warning. We must have stood that way watching each other for a good five to eight minutes. It was wonderful! My only memory lapse was in not pulling my iPod from my pocket to take what would have been an amazing photo of her at close range. Nevertheless, the moment is burned in my memory.

On the way back, I took a detour along Moonstone Beach Drive without stopping. I remember coming to this place as a young child with my grandparents, and my parents. We would walk the beach collecting Moonstones, those nearly translucent, white, wave- and sand-smoothed flat, oval rocks. I doubt collecting is allowed any longer. I also doubt that all of the resort houses and rentals were along the drive all those decades ago. This is another place to come back to another year.

Upon return, not long before dark, I filled up the gas tank on the Pilot for the long drive the next day – Saturday, March 1st – and stopped at Albertson's for a couple of items and some cash for our next campground at Hobson Beach County Park in Ventura County.

Hobson Beach County Park turned out to be a blip along Highway 101. On the way, we stopped at Starbucks for coffee (thanks, Gene) and Wifi. While using Duffy's iPad, I noticed in his email a note from an iBird volunteer back to Duffy in response to an entry he had made while in Paradise. It turned out, the bird he logged as having see could not have been there, for only three have been seen in that area in the past 30 years. Duffy wrote back, blaming me for the sighting error. I am still taking “credit” for Duffy's foibles, I see.

Back to the road to Hobson Beach County Park. We drove 101 to stay “inland” from Highway 1 to avoid the aftermath of heavy rains, wind, and possible landslides. What we did not count on was sitting right at the water's edge with a few boulders between us and the waves. No problem, as it turned out, and we were not the only campers. As we learned the next morning, surfers and storm-watchers filled the park and the parking spaces along the beachfront road. Regardless of the clouds and threatening rain, the air was warm, in the mild 50s, and comfortable.

Did I forget to mention that the soup I heated in the microwave decided to explode? I poured the can of chicken-rice-vegetable soup in a wide-mouthed microwave safe bowl, covered it with a paper towel, put it in the microwave and set the control for two minutes at full power. That, I guess, was my mistake, the FULL power. Suddenly we heard an explosion, and more than half the broth and some A reminder of another reminiscensce of burning a muffin in Skip and Susan's microwave several years ago when I thought I had set it to 30-seconds, but instead pressed the shortcut key for three minutes. I won't ever live either episode down! There will always be someone to remind me. I nearly left the soup story out of this log...until Duffy reminded me. :(

Sunday, March 2nd - the final push to San Diego down 101 to 405 and the San Diego Freeway. Santee Lakes, here we come! I I wrap up this entry, we are turning off Highway 52 to our Santee Lakes approach. It's 4:30pm and nap time for Duffy.

Until next time...Pam and Duffy

Monterey Bay: The Old Presidio and First State Capitol

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Monterey Bay: Two Nights, Following Our GPS Through The Historic Maze of Streets, and a Climb Up Huckleberry Hill
Our last visit to Monterey was nearly 48 years ago on our honeymoon. (Duffy says we came through with the boys when they were little, but I honestly do not recall.) I can't say that we remember much from that time when we were finally together as a couple and starry-eyed. I am sure much has changed and the town has grown since August 1966. What I (we ?) did not realize back then was the state history embedded in this lovely coastal town. Monterey was the port town where the continental Army claimed the land to be called California for the U.S., and the site of the first California state capitol. A wealth of history stands in the stucco buildings, restored and in use even today. A walking tour intrigued us, but we decided to make this an exploratory trip, one to repeat at a more leisurely pace in the next few years.

On this particular day we scoped out a Starbucks for our daily dose of coffee and Wifi connection, found the library where Duffy would spend time working on tax returns for Kurt's business, located the Subway for our every-other-day dinner of salad and all the fixin's for later, took a nap back in our “Baby Beluga,” and hiked to the top of Huckleberry Hill for the Old Presidio View (Pam). For the most part we followed our GPS as “Miss Direction” lost us on the maze of streets remaining from the early days. We drove around in a lot of circles, finding the same streets from every angle imaginable.

The highlight of my day was my climb to the top of Huckleberry Hill where the Veterans Memorial Park is located. The trail lead up the hill between a fenced-off military facility on one side and a fenced-off residential area on the other. As I looked up, the top seemed insurmountable. A dirt path led uphill to a series of steps which turned out to number 185 (yes, I counted them.) I took my time, several breaks for breath and rest. At the last step, I again faced a dirt path, steeper this time, continuing up the hill. Determination carried me forward to the top, where a series of named paths took off in different directions. I navigated the Summit Path for a short distance until I satisfied myself that I had reached the summit. Had I continued in the direction I climbed uphill (west? South?), I would have had spectacular views of the Pacific Ocean. Instead, I found breaks in the pines and Eucalyptus trees to the east/north (?) that afforded equally spectacular views of Monterey Bay and the city below. It was hard to tear myself away from the beauty of the place.

We will definitely need to return, to take the downtown historic walking tour, and maybe a guided one as well. We would especially like to see how many birds, familiar and new-to-us, we can find.

Until next time...Pam and Duffy

Bay Area & California Coast, Here We Come!

Sunday, February 23 through Monday, February 24, 2014

Two nights in Castro Valley then on to Monterey
Our online reservation, for camping space #8 at Anthony Chabot Family Camp in Castro Valley in the East Bay area of San Francisco, did not advise us about terrain. Hence, at 8:00pm, after dark on February 22, we discovered we could not back uphill into the RV space we'd reserved without stripping the gears on the Honda Pilot. Utilities paid for all for naught, we drove in Honda first and were only able to plug in the electricity. Our hoses would not reach water and sewer. We are grateful to be self-contained for short periods and we made do. It was less than ideal, though, and difficult to pull into even frontwards.

Sunday, on our way to meet Pam's mother's cousin, Les, his wife, Bonnie, and Bonnie's mother, Margie, we decided to see if a different spot was available in the same campground, so we would not need to hurry our visit in order to travel down the road. Wise choice! A level-ish space was available, just opened up that morning, so we opted to move before heading down the hill to town.

Ashamedly, we were late arriving at Les and Bonnie's, but were forgiven due to the circumstances. We shared a leisurely meal at a local restaurant in the small Town of Moraga, neighboring Castro Valley, and a lovely visit sharing family stories. Remarkably, this was only second visit in our nearly 48 years of marriage, and the first was on our honeymoon! So glad we made the time this trip.

Pulling up stakes, chock blocks and levelers, we headed for the nearest Starbucks for our morning coffee and wifi. It was time to research campgrounds for the next few days and plan when we will pull into San Diego. Our evolving plan puts us into Santee Lakes campground on Sunday, March 2nd. Between Castro Valley/Moraga and our arrival in San Diego we will stay two nights in Monterey (last time here was on our honeymoon) and hopefully a stop at Moonstone Beach (last time for me was when I was a young girl), two nights In San Simeon where we will visit the Hearst Castle for the first time, one night in Ventura, and one night in San Clemente to visit Duffy's cousin, Linda and her husband Chuck.

Our drive today, Monday, was uneventful. Temperatures in the east bay area and south were in the high 70s. We can't seem to get enough of this weather, which is certainly not anything like what I remember from childhood trips up this way in the 1950s. It used to be so cold, foggy, and windy. Climate is changing everywhere.

We find ourselves at a lovely spot in Monterey at the Veteran's Memorial Park, protected from ocean breezes by manzanitas and pine trees. Tomorrow we hope to explore downtown Monterey, and perhaps visit the renowned aquarium. Beyond that is surprise and discovery. Tune in to my next entry to learn what discoveries we made.

Before calling it a night, I am pleased to announce that I was able to secure campsites at Santee Lakes (officially named Santee Lakes at Padre Dam) in the town of Santee close to my brother Skip's home. This time of year is especially difficult to secure a spot, so I admit to feeling just a wee bit smug about it, or at least very pleased. The rest of the way to San Diego, we are taking our chances at finding campsites that suit us. It's great to be small and flexible; our trailer and tow vehicle can go where bigger rigs cannot.

Until next time...Pam and Duffy

February 2014 - Off We Go

Thursday, February 15 through Saturday, February 22, 2014

2013 in Review


NOTE: On the last posting of my travel blog (2012), I posed the question “is it too early to start planning for next year?”. As it turned out, we traveled for one month in November of 2012, and took two brief trips in February and March of 2013. Our nearly life-long friend Christina Shriver was struggling in her fight against Pancreatic cancer, and ultimately lost the fight in April last year. Our winter travels last year consisted of support and farewell to “Tina,” who is now singing and dancing before the Lord. The balance of 2013 included many short trips:
  • a trip to Chewelah, WA to visit good friends David and Kathy (April);
  • a field trip to Malheur National Wildlife Refuge and Field Station in SE Oregon with the Black Hills Audubon Society (Olympia area) with side trips on our return to see friends Carol and Woody in Terrebonne, OR and Deborah Heart in Goldendale, WA (May);
  • a weekend trip to Staircase campground above Lake Cushman in the Olympic Mountains with Kurt, Heather and family (June) [for the sake of brevity referred to elsewhere in this year's blog as KHJM&A];
  • a trip to Silverwood Theme Park in Athol, Idaho with KHJM&A via Chewelah, WA to visit Cyndi, Joe, Katie, & Jenny Kiefer, where I, Pam, broke my right foot, putting the kabash on my mobility and ability to drive through August (July right after the STP bike ride);
  • our annual trip to Yakima Valley and Toppenish in central Washington with KHJM&A (August);
  • a car trip sans trailer to see Duffy's sister Debbie and her daughters in Paradise, CA just days after her surgery for cancer (September);
  • Pam's flight to San Diego for Hoover High School 50th Class Reunion (October).

Week One in Sunny Paradise, CA


Olympia, Washington was cloudy with a chance of rain when we left home on Saturday, February 15th. By the time we reached Portland, the proverbial Pineapple Express met us full force and accompanied us all the way to Canyonville, OR where we spent the first night. Miraculously, the sky cleared and the full moon rose over the southern hills. Since that first day, we've had sunny days aside from one night of rain while in Paradise.

Our arrival at sister Debbie's, not originally intended to coincide with her third chemo treatment, providentially did, and also with the day her newish Subaru Outback Sport was sideswiped in the Chico Costco lot while Deb was shopping. If life isn't already hard enough enduring the cancer fight and the loss of energy it robs, the shock of a dented rear driver-side door on a car purchased just four months prior is nearly stressful enough to cause a person to throw in the towel.

We offered to spend our second day in Paradise getting estimates from body shops on repairing the damage. As we imagined, it will not be inexpensive – <> $2,000! Did I mention the driver who hit Debbie's car did not stay or leave a note. On Tuesday, while Deb was working in Chico, we drove to Costco to see if there are security cameras in place that might have captured the accident. Of course not. Video cameras only aim toward the warehouse entrance. We followed up our hunt for the perfect body shop, by taking the Subaru to Les Schwab to have the alignment checked. Our goal was to make sure the car was safe for Debbie to drive and preclude any expensive repairs in the future due to frame damage or misalignment. My goodness, the front end was way out of alignment. The difference was so very noticeable: before the smash (Australian lingo for “accident”) and after adjustment the Subaru ran smooth and quiet; before alignment was checked it ran, felt, and sounded like a bucket of bolts. There is no way the perpetrator could not have known what he/she had done. We can all breath easier knowing Debbie has a safe car to drive, if not as pretty as it once was.

When not chasing down repair estimates, I accompanied Debbie to her lab test on Tuesday, doctor visit on Wednesday, and seven-hour chemo treatment on Wednesday. Debbie's daughter Kristen arrived Wednesday evening and stayed until this morning (Saturday). While Debbie cruised through the aftermath of chemo and associated drugs and steroids, she gave in to the fatigue and energy drain, the chills and body aches, and the nausea. Thankfully, her medical team provided her with medications to ward off the worst of the effects. Once we all left this morning, Debbie was prepared to spend the day resting. She is doing well considering the circumstances.

Kristen was studying for an Associate Safety Professional exam while at Debs, which she took today. Uncle Duffy helped her study for the finance questions that were plaguing her. Hurray! Kristen texted that she passed as soon as she completed the exam and learned her score. She did well! Evidently, only a small percentage of test takers pass the grueling five-hour mind bender. Yeah for Kristen! Congratulations!

Duffy and I departed shortly after Kristen left and headed for Gray Lodge Wildlife Area south of Chico west of Hwy 99 near the town of Gridley. Driving the loop pulling our trailer, we spotted 37 varieties of birds, none of them new to us, but always a joy to see again. At 66 degrees in the valley, it was a gorgeous blue-sky day to drive along with windows down and to get out and walk on a few of the dikes. Three hours after arriving, we headed down the road for Castro Valley in the Bay Area and tonight's campground. If anybody asks, it is prudent to follow the directions provided by the campground, rather than letting the GPS guide us by calculating the shortest distance. After leaving Gray Lodge at 4:00pm, we drove into our camp spot after 8:00pm, a two-hour journey by all calculations (except the GPS's).
Now it's 10:00pm and time to turn in for the night.

Until next time...Pam and Duffy